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I Am Financially Stuck In a Relationship

Can't leave if I wanted to. Got no family, no friends. No job, no money, no car. No independence, no choice.
You need to get the FK out of that crazy azz town, and that relationship that's sucking the soul out of you.

You are capable smart and young. YOU CAN DO IT!

You need to find ANY and ALL support systems
for women/people in YOUR situation.

I understand you. I was where you are. I was with my baby.
I escaped, barely and with my wits helter skelter.
I inadvertently, let him bend me
I was so broken,
I was barely alive.

No money. I was sick. No car. Terrified is what I was.

This REALLY helped me. It all came to pass.
[u]I wrote[/u]: All of my what do I want and need in this life.
Meaning: What does my heart and soul need what am I pining for?What do I love. Who do I love. What is my joy. What is my purpose.
HOW DO I SEE MY LIFE?

TRY IT. WRITING.
VISUALIZATION AND PRAYER.
THIS HAS POWER.
And then you act.

I survived.

You will survive too.

Strategize.
Baby steps are still STEPS!

I.E.You love dogs.
Ok.
How about a dog walker?

I saw that you love New Mexico.
Let THIS be your dream destination and new home.
Pocketrockets22 · 31-35, M
I would try to find a job to start and then go from there you are never stuck just might take a while to get out. Good luck
Pocketrockets22 · 31-35, M
@DearAmbellina2113 don’t give up and even if you have to take a “crappy” job to start, some money is better than none and you can always quit when you find something better.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Pocketrockets22 dude seriously I've been applying for any job that I can find. I haven't been picky.
Pocketrockets22 · 31-35, M
@DearAmbellina2113 I hope you find something soon!
SW-User
How about doing some charity shop work, volunteering,to get you out of the MIL grip!!
SW-User
@DearAmbellina2113 Shit on a stick,an hour away!!
Where are you??
How often are you guys going out for supplies?
Steal a bike next time you go there,then you'll have some independence!!
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User we go to town every 2 weeks. I hate living here, it's suffocating and isolating.
SW-User
@DearAmbellina2113 look for anything while you're there then.. volunteering etc.
I'm guessing you already have..
Well at least you have us guys on here for some escapism
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Try a employment agency they find you a job.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@updown2020 no I mean they short you ASIDE from what the agency gets. They always do.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Oh that's not fair and the agency who got you the job does not help you with that making sure you get all your money?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@updown2020 no they're the ones stealing it.
Fairydust · F
What have you done in the past for work? What do you enjoy, Love to do?
Fairydust · F
is there anything you’ve always wanted to do work wise?
SW-User
Maybe you can find a job, save money and leave.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User been trying to do exactly that for an entire year without luck.
SW-User
so you are stuck in a relationship with someone you do not want to be with? how is he or she with the relationship? are they as unhappy as you are?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I love him. But I hate our situation and I hate the fact that I cant leave.
SW-User
@DearAmbellina2113 but why would you leave if you love him?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I hate where we live, I hate his family, I hate how we are stuck here. I want to leave and I can't.
SW-User
Sorry to hear that. Actually where i live it's a very common situation... now so more than ever due to the cost of living.
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deadgerbil · 22-25
*hugs 🐱

 
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