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I Want to Ask Out a Girl I Like

There is a girl in my band class, that I got to know really well last school year. During the school year we got to become really good friends if not best friends. During second semester we ate lunch together. As we became better friends I developed feelings for her. As the end of the school year ended I kept trying to tell her how I felt, but was always too nervous, and by the time I settled my nerves, we were already at her class. I kept dropping hints and I am pretty sure she likes me, but idk. The closest I got to telling her was asking for a hug. She was a little surprised when I asked and had to get to class, however, on the way to 4th period she gave me a hug, it was a kind awkward sideways hug, but it felt good.

I never actually got the chance to tell her how I feel. Also, I never got a way to contact her over the summer. We have not talked or seen each other all summer. Now that the new school year is approaching, I am beginning to worry about what to do. I want to stay good friends, and make sure we are still really close, but I also want her to know how I feel and to know how she feels.

Does anybody have any advice? It would be appreciated. Feel free to message me or comment here. :)
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JourneyOfLife
Be classy my friend. Don't just 'ask her out'. Walk up to her like a man, take her hands in yours, look her dead in the eye with a smile and tell her you've always liked her and how wonderful you think she is. And then tell her you want to be more than friends.And then don't ask her out on a date. Don't say "Will you go out with me?" Say "I want to be more than friends. Be my girlfriend, [insert name here]!"

Be boss-like! And if she says no, don't wuss out. Take it like a man!
marchdan · 26-30, M
Lol, I only have school to do it.
JourneyOfLife
So do it at school! Who's saying no?
marchdan · 26-30, M
No one, I am always too. Nervous
JourneyOfLife
At some point, you have to stop being a wuss. When I'm nervous, I look in the mirror and tell myself "I'm awesome but the way you're acting right now, makes ME look like a little wuss! Stop acting like a little wuss and be awesome like I'm supposed to be!"
marchdan · 26-30, M
I know. :/
JourneyOfLife
There is victory beyond courage
marchdan · 26-30, M
I know. I am just nervous
JourneyOfLife
I have fuxxed up twice because of nervousness and fear. Never again will I be afraid.
marchdan · 26-30, M
I hope same here. I have been screwed over by it before. :/
JourneyOfLife
At some point, you have to say no and take your power back into your hands. How long will you let fear dominate you?
marchdan · 26-30, M
Lol. Ok I don't want to.
JourneyOfLife
That's my man! Now go out there and sucker punch your fears and pull it off like a boss!
marchdan · 26-30, M
If I can. Lol
JourneyOfLife
I don't let myself think "if I can". For me, there is only "I must"
marchdan · 26-30, M
I know lol
JourneyOfLife
So when does school begin?
marchdan · 26-30, M
August
JourneyOfLife
Just enough time to maybe lose a pound or two. Always helps to look sexy. Besides, looking better always boosts confidence and kills fear.
marchdan · 26-30, M
I don need to loose weight lol
JourneyOfLife
Then grow a beard! :-{)>

idk man! Be creative! ;D
marchdan · 26-30, M
Lol
JourneyOfLife
Look man. Just go in for it and make sure you are the best you can be and give it your all. Even if she says no, don't walk away with regrets.
marchdan · 26-30, M
True
JourneyOfLife
Okay man! Good luck! I'm out. I think you got this. You're on your own beyond this point. Do us proud!