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I Am So Confused

my boss keeps adding to my workload, on top of that he strangely asked me to wash his teacup. I reached out to my bf and he told me that I should man up n just do what my boss wants and I'm petty. I feel like everyone bullies me....I need to set some boundaries... But I'm more hurt by my bfs lack of support....cause at his work a coworker cried and he offered her help.

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split100 · 56-60, M

i would have told him to wash his own cup, cause he will probably expect it all the time now, you BF isnt very supportive, maybe he needs to man up?

Cheesecake · 61-69, M

@split100 lol. Spot on! 😏

ChiRho · 26-30, M

Stand your ground and tell them you're not comfortable doing what they want you to do. Don't let them take advantage of you. After awhile it'll just become normal for them if you never speak up. I know this from personal experience always being a quiet person when I should have been speaking my mind. If they have any decency they'll listen and understand.

SW-User

I wouldn't trust anyone I work with, not even those who act like your friend. Plus your bf was foolish to offer a female coworker help. It might backfire on him.

Cheesecake · 61-69, M

That's understandable. He should support you whatever. Maybe a little heart to heart is in order? 😐

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