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I Love Romance

I am just starting a polyamorous relationship and I can't stop focusing on the new person in this relationship. I constantly want to talk to them. He's sick today, but he's more busy than me usually? I can't stop waiting on texts from him and wanting to talk about everything. Anyone know a way to control this? I get like this in a lot of relationships. After time it subsides, but it's driving me crazy. He's like texting not that much since yesterday. Like maybe a couple times a hour? I feel like i should chill, but I'm not sure how.

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CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F

I could never be in this position. When I'm with someone they're the one getting all my attention because I'd never be able to like them both the same. I will end up loving one and despising the other.

Vampireloveless · 26-30, F

@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic for me it isn't like that, i like them both, just ones new and the others more established.

CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F

@Vampireloveless i understand. I don't wanna say I'm obsessive i just never have been able to like anything equally. I've always got a favorite. Except my kids.

Vampireloveless · 26-30, F

Yeah, I get that, I don't exactly have a favorite with them, but I wpuld say im more excited for the new relationship. The old ones really nice too, but it's just the same as it ever was lol.

CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F

@Vampireloveless hey, if it works for you all that's great. Just don't let them treat you bad ever!