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I Love Romance

I am just starting a polyamorous relationship and I can't stop focusing on the new person in this relationship. I constantly want to talk to them. He's sick today, but he's more busy than me usually? I can't stop waiting on texts from him and wanting to talk about everything. Anyone know a way to control this? I get like this in a lot of relationships. After time it subsides, but it's driving me crazy. He's like texting not that much since yesterday. Like maybe a couple times a hour? I feel like i should chill, but I'm not sure how.
I could never be in this position. When I'm with someone they're the one getting all my attention because I'd never be able to like them both the same. I will end up loving one and despising the other.
@Vampireloveless i understand. I don't wanna say I'm obsessive i just never have been able to like anything equally. I've always got a favorite. Except my kids.
Vampireloveless · 26-30, F
Yeah, I get that, I don't exactly have a favorite with them, but I wpuld say im more excited for the new relationship. The old ones really nice too, but it's just the same as it ever was lol.
@Vampireloveless hey, if it works for you all that's great. Just don't let them treat you bad ever!
A couple times an hour? There are people here who would dissolve in tears of joy if a new guy texted them a couple times a week.

Text him you have something to do that means you have to turn off your cell for three hours. Then he will either text or he won't but at least you'll have a reason why.
Vampireloveless · 26-30, F
@Mamapolo2016 thats a good idea. I could use that time to myself.
river52 · 70-79, M
take a step back....relax.....take a walk.......try and wait until he reaches out to you

 
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