I Have Something I Need to Say

@Thorne1138 That is a very negative, unhealthy way of thinking, which gets us nowhere, however, we should never belittle people this way. Life is what you make it, however, we only DO better, when we KNOW better, and there's certainly nothing shameful in that.

@LadyGrace it is not about belittling people. it is more a statement of if you want something you need to go out and get it. you might not always get what you think you deserve in life. but you can do the best you can and get something that makes you happy.

@Thorne1138 No doubt, but you don't heartlessly belittle people for it, telling them to "get a f**** life", like you just did. Some people don't KNOW how to make things happen. They may need uneducated and that's what I mean. You do better, when you know better. When you have learned. You don't kick people in the teeth for not having understanding or when they are down in life. That's the way we learn and grow. Yes you have to go out and get things that you want in life, not expect them to come to you, but that is not what I was saying in my post.

@Thorne1138 I never said my life didn't turn out the way I wanted it to. It most certainly has, because I was willing to learn and grow.

@LadyGrace I know you do not. but those were not my words and are from a comedian. and that is always a subjective issue. it came at the same point but from a different direction. but I agree with you wholeheartedly about seeking out what you need to make you happy.

@Thorne1138 I don't think his words were funny. I didn't get that, because I don't know who that person is, but thank you for explaining.