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I Will Answer Anything You Ask

We* will answer anything you ask.

We're Arthur, Jessica, Serena, Sarah, Henry. A polyamorous household.

If you have questions for one of us, please indicate so. Other wise, we'll answer together.
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Miram31-35, F
Sounds more like you have identity dissociative disorder to me.
Miram31-35, F
@Miram That like split personality or something?
Miram31-35, F
@PolyamorousPlaymates Ask the other three people? None knows what this means?
LeopoldBloomM
One man and three women? That's usually a religious arrangement, like Muslims or Fundamentalist Latter-Day Saints. Are you members of a religion that allows polygamy?

If not, are you open to other men joining your household? What about one woman with three men?
@LeopoldBloom Arthur and Jessica are legally married. License, paper work, ceremony, certificate, all that stuff.
LeopoldBloomM
@PolyamorousPlaymates Do the others have some kind of legal arrangement for inheritance, child custody, etc.?
@LeopoldBloom Yeah. We've got all that worked out as well.
M1keW26-30, M
This is interesting. I love my girlfriend, but she can still be a handful to deal with at times, all by herself. How do you guys make it work with 4 people involved?
@M1keW It helps when everyone is secure in themselves and confident we all care for each other. Also a schedule to make sure no one is neglected or feels left out.
Pherick41-45, M
First, awesome for you folks for pulling it all off. My only real question is how much more communication does this take?

My previous relationships a good bit of time/effort was dedicated to communication, working out issues, etc. As you have to in any relationship, but then to multiply that by 4 or so. I feel like I might not do anything else :)
Pherick41-45, M
@PolyamorousPlaymates Well I meant more like, in a "normal" relationship, you have 1 on 1 talks and issues, but then in a relationship like yours, if B and C have a fight, do A and D get involved/take sides?

I just mean, I feel like 1 on 1 relationship can be difficult enough, I can't imagine how adding more people to the mix works! :)
@Pherick Oh. Well, fights rarely happen, actually. And once every month, we sit down and let out any issues we might have. General therapy session stuff. At first it was difficult, but eventually we all got comfortable with everyone and now any issues are resolved as soon as they come up.

Those monthly meetings then turned into family game/movie might.
Pherick41-45, M
@PolyamorousPlaymates Well thats very awesome to hear! Good for you all!
SW-User
Ok just read your bio lol 馃槀 easier that way.. wow I love couples like you and often wonder how you make it work as i was in a three way relationship but just didn鈥檛 work out
@SW-User Respect and self confidence helps a lot.
SW-User
Something we all lacked lol figures 馃 @PolyamorousPlaymates
SW-User
Wow!! So four of you share each other if I鈥檓 correct?
SW-User
This can be tough on a man!! @Miram
Miram31-35, F
@SW-User [quote]Respect and self confidence helps a lot.[/quote]

Those aren't my words and beliefs.

It can be tough for women too.
SW-User
Oh god yes of course it can.. totally agree! @Miram
Keepitsimple51-55, F
Who鈥檚 night is it tonight?
@Keepitsimple We all do. All working makes finances a breeze.
Keepitsimple51-55, F
When is Arthur鈥檚 off night?@PolyamorousPlaymates
He's here. He starts working at noon.
Kerrmit8436-40, M
Have you ever all skinny dipped together?
Kerrmit8436-40, M
@PolyamorousPlaymates whose Idea was it
@Kerrmit84 The youngest daughter, actually.
Kerrmit8436-40, M
@PolyamorousPlaymates nice to be able to do that as a whole family
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@Rattlesnake Somewhere in-between.

 
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