I Have to Say It Like It Is Sometimes and Get It Off My Chest

The guy I’m hanging with right now is nothing serious. He’s really respectful and funny but we’re not going to develop into a relationship. He’s 21 and I’m 25. And I’ll soon be 26 and eventually I’m going to want to settle down and he’s not there yet. I agreed to see him because my coworker arranged it but I’ve had a good time with him. I think being around him has made me realize what I want in a man.