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Do you feel you have a lot of love to give?

I do. I can be cynical, jaded, guarded. Been betrayed, manipulated, neglected and attacked by the ones I loved. But still I have hope that I might someday love someone worthy.

I finally realized that when I love, I want to give, do things for them, be there for them, help them, accept them unconditionally. i’m ridiculously generous with my time, money, and general life. and it’s a rare person who won’t take advantage of that. I’m ok with taking time now, even though all that love is kinda bubbling around inside me.

How about you?

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HikingMan · 51-55, M

Of all the wonder in this life
I wonder most in the dark of night
I wonder if the love I fight
Is a love that was ever right ?

You are a wonderful human being, and a lovely woman. You deserve the best things life can offer, including an honest love that makes you feel whole and completes you. I hope it finds you soon, and begins to heal every injury your soul has been made to withstand.

You are beautiful.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@HikingMan You just brought tears to my eyes. ❤️❤️🤗 thank you.

HikingMan · 51-55, M

I bet that even your tears are beautiful.

You are always welcome, though no thanks are ever necessary.
The truth is free.

iMacula · M

You sound a lot like me.

I'll bet you are always underappreciated and often taken for granted or advantage of. I like to just love without measuring or having to guard. I don't let too many people in my perimeter.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

I have been, but hopefully not again. patience... @iMacula

iMacula · M

@Fallflower Name some fall flowers. I only know of spring flowers.

StarLily · 51-55, F

Yes. I understand this a lot!🙂

nowic2 · 61-69, M

Yes I do, in lots of ways. But recently I was thoughtless & selfish & blew it. It had potential to be very good. Now it's just a matter of lesson learnt.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

I’m sorry... we all make mistakes 🤗@nowic2

SmartKat · 61-69, F

Yes. Every time I feel like I’m all drained, and no more than a shell of myself....I’ve been able to come back and live again.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

yes! it regenerates 🥰@SmartKat

submissivelittlewoman · F

Yes, I do. I’ve been hurt a lot in my life, but I still have lots of love to give.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@submissivelittlewoman sounds like we have some things in common 😉

SW-User

I do, but it's not necessarily romantic love.

SW-User

@SW-User what a great statement! ♥

Fallflower · 46-50, F

agree. I’m lucky that my kids do appreciate my love 😊 @SW-User

SW-User

@Fallflower my kids as well..I never doubt their love!

Noble · 56-60, M

Love seeps from me like roots of a tree seek a source of water. ❤️

Fallflower · 46-50, F

So it’s an instinctive need that keeps you going? @Noble

Noble · 56-60, M

It’s most definitely an instinctive need, I seek and crave - a fuel for me.

I’m sorry you’ve been hurt! @Fallflower

Jessmari · 41-45

Yes, but I currently have it on lockdown along with all the other dangerous ideas I've had.

TheGoodGuy · M

Definitely. Sorry you went through that. I've been through pretty much all of that too. It sucks. It makes being able to trust someone again so much more difficult.

Once you find a good person to love and treat in that manner he's gonna appreciate you so much. Everything you wrote about how you would love someone is pretty much exactly the same for me too ❤️

Fallflower · 46-50, F

Well, all that bad stuff didn’t happen all at once, just throughout the years. I’m sure everyone has experienced some of it at some point. but yeah it would be nice to be appreciated 😅@TheGoodGuy

SW-User

Yes I have a lot of love to give, it’s apart of my genetics. My best attribute is caring and patience but these have sadly been taken a lend of before by narcissists and however many times I’ve prepared for the hurt i can see them brewing up I am never really ready for what they dish out in the end.

Keep going, keep sharing the love and the right people will appreciate you for it.

SW-User

I relate to your post so much, at times I think give too much, I hope you will find that person worthy of you! Thank you for posting this ♥🌷🤗

Fallflower · 46-50, F

I am learning to hold myself back until it’s right. thank you ❤️ @SW-User

OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M

Used to feel like that, but just like anything kept locked for too long...

Fallflower · 46-50, F

some things get better with age... but yeah I feel you. @OnePatheticClown

passingby8 · 31-35, F

I can relate.Im very giving when I'm in love with someone

Fallflower · 46-50, F

be careful and respect how special that is ❤️@passingby8

passingby8 · 31-35, F

@Fallflower Thanks :)
And good luck,hope you find the right people to give your love to.

PhoenixPhail · M

Yes, I feel all of that, too. And I've learned to be cautious about with whom I share it.

luvin2flirt · 61-69, M

I try to love everyone and treat everyone equal... You sound like a wonderful person.. 🤗 Hugs

OogieBoogie · F

I so get this.

It's all there, inside - but you can't afford to waste it on some selfish bastard next Time, you want someone who realises the honest gift that it is.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

not shockingly, my dad is kind of a selfish bastard. it’s so textbook 😋 @OogieBoogie

Nanori · F

No, I only have enough love for two, myself and my bf

Fallflower · 46-50, F

that’s cool 🙂@Nanori

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Well, yeah.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

ok!@MarkPaul

Tres13 · 51-55, M

Good Lovin'

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

I do not

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Tons

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@MartinTheFirst what do you do with it all?

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Fallflower mostly pour it back into my head like a perpetual motion machine, but at times if people give me room to expand I will send out a bit of it.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

@MartinTheFirst love that!

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