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So I’m on week 6 of being on a dating app, & I’ve been actively dating for the past 5 weeks. I’ve met up with 8 guys already, some with chemistry, some without, & all younger than me.

In these 6 weeks, I’ve reached 415 likes on the app, but I don’t know who these men are unless they message me. I don’t respond to all the messages, but in the past 6 weeks, I’ve texted with over 60 men.

Many disappear like a puff of smoke when I don’t give them what they want. But when one disappears, another one comes along, so it’s never ending.

I’ve been catfished/scammed by 4 men already, & thanks to some online friends, I’ve been able to weed them out.

As fun & exciting as it is sometimes, it can also be exasperating with some flaky men I’ve had to deal with.

I can tell you this much. The men on EP & SW that I’ve befriended over the years, have been a lot more genuine & have been really good friends to me than most of the ones I’m meeting through the app. So that’s why I’m going to continue going to meet-up events because at least I might be able to meet some guys in person, who won’t just see me as hook-up material. But I still stay positive no matter what. ☺️😊

On a side note, there are some crafty men who send interesting messages like these, even if they are a little cheesy. 😅 And no, I didn’t message him back.

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SW-User
I tried a dating app once but literally all the women in my area and in my age group said in their profiles that they wanted younger guys.
marsbar · F
Oh wow. I’m sorry.

Thankfully I’m in a large metropolitan area, so I get men messaging me, but mostly in the younger age groups. A handful of ones my age have messaged me, but 95% are younger. Lol @SW-User
SW-User
@marsbar That's ok, yes it makes sense for you as well i think. I think generally most places there are more guys than women on dating sites, so women can afford to be a bit more selective... well just from what i've seen. On the one i joined, it was called fitness singles. When i searched about a 100km radius of my small town i got 13 ladies if i remember correctly. So i thought i'd then search the same area for guys to see what the competition was like, and i got just under 200 lol
Bushmanoz · 56-60, M
@SW-User how sad is that, they are missing out on a really good bloke
SW-User
@Bushmanoz Aw thanks! well i guess i have more time to be on here and annoy everyone 😂
marsbar · F
Oh damn! Your odds!! 😅😂@SW-User
SW-User
@marsbar Yes 😌😂