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I Am Scared of Relationships

At this point it's like water under the bridge. Every relationship I've been in has led to hurt. Both romantic and otherwise. From these experiences I just don't know If I would ever make room in my life for someone else and be willing to change my habits to accommodate a relationship or habits counter to the other persons needs.

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

Agree completely.. I couldnt ever even try again now.. I tried too long and too often.. and realised I am really shit at choosing people I believe are worthy of my love..
but at the same time.. it's sad isn't it? I can't help feeling that we should really not let anything that happened before affect our future.. we should treat each and every new experience as NEW..
I think though .. that whatever we believe we should do.. we are affected by the past..

Steve42 · 56-60, M

@Adaydreambeliever Mine is experience based reasoning. I'm not saying if someone who came along rocked my world I wouldn't reconsider. Just don't expect it.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

I completely agree and have failed at relationships. I'm disposed off after my purpose is served. So I don't think I'll ever try to be in a romantic relationship anymore. I'm better off alone than going through the pain and suffering all alone in the end.

GoldButterfly · F

Sounds like an INFP.

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GoldButterfly · F

@Steve42 Yep we do. I saw your picture, you have the looks to get any woman you desire.

Steve42 · 56-60, M

@GoldButterfly Thank you. If you were in my skin you might find differently.

GoldButterfly · F

@Steve42 I am an INFP too. I don't think we are ever comfortable in our skin. I know I am not.

LyricalOne · F

That’s what most people say until someone comes along who makes their nether regions tingle.

Steve42 · 56-60, M

@LyricalOne That becomes less a thing the older you get.

LyricalOne · F

@Steve42 Maybe less but that glimmer of hope rarely disappears completely.

hunkalove · 61-69, M

You can always work for the post office.

Lilnonames · F

That's why I stay single and am no.I pick and choose where I go.who I'm with and go home to my place alone

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