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I Get Jealous Easily

I definitely get jealous easily, about dumb things, people who have horses, people with money, who have nicer things than I do. My friends when she's with her boyfriend. I don't want her boyfriend i just want A boyfriend. Its such a bad thing to have because i really do know my life is really good. I have lots of nice things and I am very thankful and proud of the things I have. But sometimes i can't help it. I am quite an introvert most of the time in real life. I am very outgoing online because people can't really judge me online, well they can but i don't have to look them in the face and don't get invited to much which I don't like. Im jealous of people who are in relationships because I haven't had a real opportunity to have one. I am jealous of the people who have a courage to go out to places alone. I feel so pathetic going to a bar alone, but i really don't have anyone to go out with. i don't know why but it feels so awkward and pointless.

Anyone else have similar feelings sometimes??
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VAMP69 · 41-45, M
I Do. I haven't been with anybody since 2007 so I do know the feeling
JP1119 · 31-35, M
Yeah, I can relate. I’m an introvert too. I don’t drink, so I’ve always felt really awkward the few times I’ve been to a bar. I get really jealous and frustrated when a girl I like gets a boyfriend. So you’ve never been in a relationship before either?
danhorse18 · 22-25, F
[@337057,JP1119] yup same here and ya never had a relationship. ive sorta dated around a bit but nothing took. and ya i get frustrated with people getting together, especailly when they are so wrong for them. I may not be either but ya.
JP1119 · 31-35, M
[@844833,danhorse18] I don’t necessarily know when I think people are wrong for each other, I just know when I really like a certain girl and she starts dating some other guy instead of me. I’ve had several first dates, but never a second one with anyone. All the women I’ve gone on dates with have been women I knew liked me but I wasn’t very attracted to any of them. I’ve never had a date before with a girl that I was really attracted to. One of my male friends suggested to me recently that I just need to give the girls that like me more of a fair chance. But why? No girl I liked ever gave me a fair chance. I think most people are attractive enough that they can find someone they “just click with”, they know they don’t have to give chances to people that don’t give them butterflies at first. Maybe I do have to give chances to people that I’m not attracted to because I’m a loser and not very attractive. Btw I’ve never had sex before either. In fact, I’ve never even like held hands before or kissed or anything. And I’m 31.
Babydoll4life · 18-21, F
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Everyone has feelings of jealousy at times. I think that's totally normal.
MrBrownstone · 41-45, M
Do you get jealous when your boyfriend talks with other girls?
You're a pretty lady and the relationships will come

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