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I Love My Husband, But I Am Not In Love With My Husband

I've gone back to school, I've held a 3.969 gpa, done some counseling, joined jujitsu, planned a trip to Australia for a year from now, and lost weight all while my husband does nothing. He sleeps and plays video games. I have to beg him to walk the dog and he throws a fit about it. He can't get along with anyone, which is why he can't hold a job for longer than 2 or 3 months. Then, the part that pisses me off the most is that he tells me I'm not doing anything. He's miserable and he wants me to be too. It wasn't like this until I started doing something with my life. I'm quickly falling out of love with him. I love him and the 10 years of memories I have with him, but I don't know how much longer I can put up with his attitude.

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Hotwife3000 · C

Good for you to find your own happiness and success. It is his choice if he wants to join you on such, and if he wants to make a difference in his life. Don't be held on by guilt, and you have a lot of life left. Do you want to be miserable? If he truly loved you, he would find a way to keep a job and not leach off your hard work. I think you have already made your decision, so just do what YOU need so you can lead a happy life.