I Believe That Everyone Is Created Equal

@AlienZipper Sounds wonderful in a Mack and Tosh kind of way. You remember Mack and Tosh the little gophers on Bugs Bunny. After you. No after you no after you I insist. If nobody leads things fall apart very quickly. 'For lack of vision the people perish'.

@hippyjoe1955 I agree someone needs to lead, but this whole Dom/sub thing is a twisted manipulation of another human being.

@AlienZipper Not if both parties want it. I pick out Dear Wife's clothes and diet - because she wants me to. I spank her bare bottom - because she wants me to. She finds solace in my being dominant. Should I deny her that comfort because someone else thinks it is twisted? BTW she has a wonderful figure, looks 20 years younger than her birth certificate says and is constantly complimented on her choice in clothes. I love her and help her in every way I can.

@hippyjoe1955 you decide what she eats and what she wears ? Doesn't sound ducked up at all

@hippyjoe1955 Picking out clothes is one thing, but spanking her bare ass? That sounds like a psychological issue to me. Something's amiss when an adult wants to receive something usually associated with childhood punishment as a means to correct improper behavior.

@AlienZipper What seems strange to you simply shows your lack of experience. One of the great errors of all time is assuming one's beliefs or taste or practices are the norm by which all other beliefs or tastes or practices should be measured. I you don't like it - don't do it. Your choice is no more or less valid for you than mine is for me.

@hippyjoe1955 What IS - not seems - strange is that your comment makes the assumption that you know me and my experiences.

I personally don't care if you strip naked and howl at the moon in your front yard every night. I'm sure you'd have a explanation why there's nothing wrong with it.