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I Used to Be In the British Army

Parted ways on bitter terms still have respect for those who have, are and died serving though

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Frank52 · 70-79, M

It sounds like it was a tough time in many ways for you. The forces are necessary but sadly so often damaging to those who volunteer to protect others. I hope you find a satisfying civvy life.

Therifleman · 31-35, M

@Frank52 seen it tear apart friends things we have seen and friends we watched despair consume them

Civvy life's hard to fit back into but will get there

Frank52 · 70-79, M

@Therifleman Good to know you're positive and determined. Good people around you and listening to sound advice are important for everyone for good mental health. Don't be afraid to reach out for help - many men make the mistake of believing the nonsense that 'real' men are loners and can cope. You know how important team work is in the army - same outside in many ways, just different ways of doing it.

Therifleman · 31-35, M

@Frank52 can't shy away from my mental health I know I am affected by Afghanistan but only by talking can I come to terms

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Talking and venting can help release that pressure on the inside. Do you have a therapist? @Therifleman

Therifleman · 31-35, M

@Carissimi I do have a lot to come to terms with

Carissimi · 70-79, F

It can take time, sometimes a long time. @Therifleman

Therifleman · 31-35, M

@Carissimi not expecting a quick fix but I will put the work in

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Best wishes. @Therifleman

Therifleman · 31-35, M

@Carissimi thank you