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Is a person too nice or nice all the time boring?

I’ve been told I’m too nice and I sound so boring because I don’t take risks or have stories to tell or I please people way too much and too easy going. I get accused of being too agreeable.

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SW-User

Half of my friends don’t take risks and didn’t have fun stories to tell , I’m fine with that. I’m the opposite. You’re mature and you know your limits. Don’t do anything you feel uncomfortable with. And that doesn’t make you boring , it just makes you sensible and safe.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@SW-User Thank you. I perfect to play it safe

Tachyeon · 26-30, F

We don't live to impress people, you keep doing you. But what's important is don't let people take advantage of you for being nice and step all over you.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Tachyeon My best friend is loyal, kind but she has a little bit of a rude side sometimes. People respect her because she isn’t “nice”.

Tachyeon · 26-30, F

@LaylaTheTallGirl Maybe we all can let our rudeness loose a little to a degree. Just need to know the right moment. But however things are, always stay on the safe side as long as we do no harm.

5lutmuffin · F

Being too nice comes off as fake. If you let your real emotions come through, whether it be anger at something trivial, fear, sadness, or genuine happiness then you come across as more real and less boring.

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