I Am a People Pleaser

All my decisions in life have been taken on the basis of a single line of thought "I don't wanna hurt X", OR "I don't wanna hurt Y" OR "I don't wanna hurt Z". Not for a single instance have I stopped to consider how I might feel about a certain decision. When it comes to conflicting interests, I try to go for the solution that hurts the minimum number of people or one that causes the minimum amount of sadness to people, regardless of what it does to me. I have been a people pleaser for so long that I don't know what makes me happy anymore! Lol