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I'm An Open Book If You Care To Read Me

This guy at work really irks me.

We were great friends for the longest time. Then he made things all awkward. I finally told him we shouldn't talk anymore, since his girlfriend seemed to have major issues with it. We agreed to be cordial at work, even though I was thinking we just shouldn't talk at all. But he still sits with me every time I'm in the lounge and talks to me.....and then today, he had the audacity to ask when we're going to go out drinking. Um, we're not. How many times do I have to make myself clear? It's so frustrating, because on the one hand I really like him and want to be friends. On the other hand, he's a selfish idiot who just cannot simply be my friend...and he never respects what I say. I set a boundary, he ignores it. I don't even think he genuinely cares about anything I say. I think he just wants in my pants. Ugh. Men are annoying.
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BellaLocura · 51-55, F
Maybe it's time to talk to Human Resources about this...it almost sounds like it's borderline harassment.
If I was more stern about it all, I would agree with you. However, I always try to play it off cool. So I can see where he might still have hope. However, I do make my points very clear. I don't beat around the bush about it. My main problem is, he knows and yet he still blatantly disrespects everything. I wouldn't necessarily consider it harassment, but definitely stupid selfishness.