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Is it weird that I expect my partners to cheat? [I Want To Talk About Cheating]

It doesn't really bother me when it happens because I go into the relationship expecting it. 😐 I just ask that they be safe about it, I don't want a disease.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Meh, I guess it’s better to set the bar low
nowic2 · 61-69, M
Not weird, it's a form of self protection. It's sad though that you have been betrayed often enough that you have low expectations. I hope you can find some who cherishes & is totally loyal to you.
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@BluntSm0ker I've never cheated in my life.
SW-User
You aren't alone. I don't think it's weird, but I do think it's sad that people have been betrayed to the extent that they expect that or any other kind of unacceptable behavior.
fetvoy12 · 51-55, M
1) Most marriages fail and even a long term relationship later in life is not that popular...some seek out a polyamorous scenario so that up front you know what to expect...honestly monogamy is way overrated...
2)For God's sake, be responsible when you have sex...no need to pass diseases!
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
nothing to werid about i think as when you continue in a relation you are well known to all facts about it and your partner so you can guess his nature too in this matter only it's differ that the grade of cheating or how far he/she can go in to cheating
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Yes. That's a saddening thought. I would never start a relationship with anyone I expected to be unfaithful.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@PhilDeep maybe you have enough to offer someone that they wouldn't feel the need to cheat.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
@DearAmbellina2113 That is kind. I have completely stopped looking because I know I have too much to fix to fairly expect anyone else to take into their life. I wouldn't start anything with a cheater anyway though.

I know you feel you don't match that new guy, from what you've been writing, but maybe he thinks a lot better of you than you do yourself, friend? I found self-esteem took me decades to master. I don't think there's an easy way but I think it's worth it. All the best to you.
SW-User
Has it already happened?
SW-User
Does he tell you about it@DearAmbellina2113
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User no I just found out through their friends usually. Or I literally caught them.
SW-User
You caught them making out @DearAmbellina2113
Aw.. I doubt anyone would cheat on ya
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@TimingQuasars they have.
@DearAmbellina2113 sorry to hear that
BalmyNites · F
That’s not good 😐

 
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