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I Don't Know What to Do Anymore

My boyfriend had an accident and is now confined in a wheel chair and ever since his personality has split. He turned into a monster! He yells, became increasingly aggressive, verbally abusive and is very manipulative and can't keep a proper conversation without being aggravated.I empathize with him and find it hard to leave him because I know what a great person he was, to make it worse he refuse to seek therapy or counselling. This whole thing is stressing me and I feel stuck

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ChefBrian · 41-45, M

He is angry, and bitter that his life has forever changed.
You need to make a hard decision if you want to stay or go. If its go, then go. If its stay than tell him how you expect to be treated, and how you want to be there, but can't under the current circumstances. I understand why he's upset, but he doesn't have to take it out on you.