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I Don't Know What to Do Anymore

My boyfriend had an accident and is now confined in a wheel chair and ever since his personality has split. He turned into a monster! He yells, became increasingly aggressive, verbally abusive and is very manipulative and can't keep a proper conversation without being aggravated.I empathize with him and find it hard to leave him because I know what a great person he was, to make it worse he refuse to seek therapy or counselling. This whole thing is stressing me and I feel stuck

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SW-User

You have to ask yourself if you truly love him, or do you just feel sorry for him? I'm afraid if the answer is B, pity and guilt are not a solid foundation for any relationship.

RyannaT · 26-30, F

@SW-User I still love him a lot and to be honest sometimes his pain is equally mine

SW-User

@RyannaT it sounds like you have some serious soul searching to do, but at least there is a glimmer of hope for your relationship. Just remember, it's yours and his relationship. nobody, and I mean NOBODY should interfere with you and your feelings at this point. Good or bad, right or wrong? Only you know, and you and your bf will figure this out....together, with any luck.

SW-User

@SW-User I should add that I agree with anyone who suggests he needs counseling. You may need to go together, but at this point, I think he needs it more than you. He has been through a traumatic life changing experience, and needs more than just your support, but also the support of a professional doctor or councilor.