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I Don't Know What to Do Anymore

My boyfriend had an accident and is now confined in a wheel chair and ever since his personality has split. He turned into a monster! He yells, became increasingly aggressive, verbally abusive and is very manipulative and can't keep a proper conversation without being aggravated.I empathize with him and find it hard to leave him because I know what a great person he was, to make it worse he refuse to seek therapy or counselling. This whole thing is stressing me and I feel stuck

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Inquisator · M

your boyfriend "died" in the accident, and the guy in the wheelchair is not him, so time to leave

RyannaT · 26-30, F

@Inquisator Wouldn't that be evil of me?

Inquisator · M

No he is broken, and staying with him will only break you also, take a chat with the staff at any care unit and they will tell you the same.

RyannaT · 26-30, F

@Inquisator Don't you think that it's a passing phase because he is still bitter about life that maybe things will turn out okay

Inquisator · M

It might be, but if the time frame for this passing is years then you are stuck with a depression and are no support anyway