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I Don't Know What to Do Anymore

My boyfriend had an accident and is now confined in a wheel chair and ever since his personality has split. He turned into a monster! He yells, became increasingly aggressive, verbally abusive and is very manipulative and can't keep a proper conversation without being aggravated.I empathize with him and find it hard to leave him because I know what a great person he was, to make it worse he refuse to seek therapy or counselling. This whole thing is stressing me and I feel stuck

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MissMollyCharlotte0702

Does he have a brain injury?

RyannaT · 31-35, F

@MissMollyCharlotte0702 Not that I know of

MissMollyCharlotte0702

Is he permanently disabled physically? You need to get him further testing if there is any brain damage.
His personality change could come from a brain injury or he is depressed.
He needs therapy.
If he refuses you need to give him an ultimatum. You have a life too.
@RyannaT

RyannaT · 31-35, F

@MissMollyCharlotte0702 His spine was affected hence it's permanent. He knows he is depressed and often cries a lot and has become very pessimistic about his life. I had a talk with him and ultimatum of leaving if he doesn't change then he told me he will just commit suicide and that scared the hell out of me

MissMollyCharlotte0702

I’m sorry. You know it might help if you get some counselling. You need support in knowing how to deal with this.
No one wants him to commit suicide, but you are doing everything you can.
You need either counselling or a support group.@RyannaT

RyannaT · 31-35, F

@MissMollyCharlotte0702 I appreciate❤