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I Hate Being Ugly

My best friends are hot and would totally hook up with each other. I'm attracted to them, but I'm ugly and they've told me before I have a good personality, but I'm not attractive. I get this a lot from guys and girls.

It sucks being ugly.

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greenmountaingal · 80-89, F

Read Maya Angelou's poem:
Phenomenal Woman

It's easily found online.

It explains what makes a woman sexy and attractive.

You don't have to look a particular way to be attractive.

Strive for good health, self-esteem and self-confidence. Find what is special and unique about you and focus on that. Do that for a few years and you will start to bloom right about the time the super-pretties start to fade. A few years after that, if you keep it up, you'll be able to teach them a few things.

ShesNotSleeping · 26-30, F

I just read the poem and thank you for telling me about it. I guess for a long time I always thought you had to look a certain way to be attractive. But what the poem is saying (and what you've told me) is helping me to understand that it can be more the qualities you possess and the way you carry yourself that make you attractive.

Thank you. I really appreciate this.