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Why do I do this every time 😅😭

Please no judgment. I’m feeling pretty low and questioning myself.

I’m so frustrated and annoyed.

I introduced one of my friends that I met a year ago to my other friend that I’ve known for 5+ years and they instantly CLICKED.

Now it was fun to hang out with them for a bit but then things started changing it seemed like. They hung out and did all this stuff together and I started to feel like a third wheel.

I know I’m in the wrong for feeling insecure and whatever, but I don’t think I want to keep this friendship from this 1 year friend. I’ll let him be best friends with her but I just don’t want to be around like that.

I just got off the phone with him and he already talked to my other friend about stuff and then he invited me to his dinner party, all I said was maybe and then “thanks for thinking about me” and giggled. It was supposed to be a joke, but he took it literally and hung up on me.

I don’t think I want this friendship anymore.

Anyway, just needed to vent my insecure problems.
FCNantes · 22-25, M
"I know I’m in the wrong for feeling insecure and whatever"

Nope. No 1 has ever been in the wrong for feeling a certain way. It's kind of disconcerting if you haven't realised that yet...
SaraxKay · 26-30, F
@FCNantes thank you 😭 I don’t want to express how I feel because I know I’ll be seen as the insecure friend. So i know mentally it’s better for me to just cut ties.
FCNantes · 22-25, M
@SaraxKay Given you've only been friends for 1 year, I think that's fair enough.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
I don’t think I want this friendship anymore.

...and you have every right to feel that way.
It's hard to be friends with people you're no longer comfortable with.
SaraxKay · 26-30, F
THANK U 😭💜 @LucyFuhr
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
@SaraxKay 🤗
Just one more thing...

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
I wouldn't really say that insecure it just got a little weird you may just need to change things up a little bit and do your own thing
Oh wow. Friendship dynamics can get weird. Good luck.
SaraxKay · 26-30, F
@JustGoneNow trust me I know I’m in the wrong, I just needed to express my feelings somewhere. And you are all the victims for hearing me complain lol
@SaraxKay Not at all. Wrong or right, they are your feelings. And feelings are never wrong. Sometimes, you have to accept them and release them, though. Be safe and be well. 🖤
Dshhh · M
give them time for the newness to end. in 3 monthz, a year? you might get them back.
so yeah give them space, explore your other folks
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