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How can you not breakdown 馃槱

We were always taught to treat others how you want to be treated. Am I Right? It feels like so many people forget other people gave feelings, the physical bullying, verbal bullying, from just anybody! It becomes to over whelming, and it鈥檚 just not fair! Nobody wants to feel like their useless, or a nobody, or should feel scared. I just really became on edge and I can鈥檛 anymore. It鈥檚 so unfair I鈥檝e Had things that were said to me such awful things, and it鈥檚 just If.. never mind 馃槶
Runningwolves61-69, M Best Comment
I'm sorry you had to suffer that kind of treatment. I can't really explain why people behave the way they do, but i strongly suspect its out of ignorance cause by a lack of spiritual principles not religon the two are not the same.. I try to live by spiritual principles but i dont accept man made religions. Sadly that also stems from how a person is raised at home... in truth the world in general dumbfoundes me at times with it heartlessness and cruelty. That's all you ever hear about anyway and that has created a morbid world where everyone's is in self defense mode untrusting or trusting people for the wrong reasons. But then the world is full of love and compassion too we just dont hear about it as much because it doesnt sell papers, generate views, or drive up tv ratings... and then there is this to a serious lack of faith in just God, Jesus, and the holy spirit not religon after all Jesus called out the scribes and the Pharisees on their replacing God's words with their own man made traditions... just something to think about.. God's loving grace be with you always.
@Runningwolves It鈥檚 just I don鈥檛 understand Why 馃槶馃槶馃槶
Runningwolves61-69, M
Me neither馃have a friendly hug
Justme26470-79, M
@Mindyhernanez Bullies never need a reason for bullying and treating people the way you arectreated ...you will never know why..it is nothing about you..it is ALL about them.

luv2fly35270-79, M
I'm saddened that you've had to endure these horrible treatments and toxic verbal assaults; i must confess to not understanding it either. Your self-worth is God given no matter what others may say. All we can do is avoid toxic people as much as possible but please don't let them rent space in your head. Best wishes!
@luv2fly352 j thanks :(
MoonpennyF
But it does matter...
MoonpennyF
@Mindyhernanez Your foster parents, at least?
@Moonpenny they don鈥檛 care there just as bad 馃槶馃挃
MoonpennyF
@Mindyhernanez Do you have a social worker so you can be placed with a family who want to foster for the right reasons? I know in the Uk it's very well-paid to foster children and some people do this for that reason alone. Not all though. I hate to think of you having to deal with this situation. Stay strong x
alan20M
I sympathize. Bullying, physical or verbal, is one of the worst manifestations of the human condition. Your sensitivity is a virtue; others trying to abuse it to hurt you, are contemptible. Just try to avoid such people. Where its not possible try to ignore them. They are inferior creatures who feel a need to boost their own egos at your expense.
alan20M
@alan20 Many thanks and the very best!
cherokeepatti61-69, F
I have ways to deal with it, I had an upbringing with a bullying sister and a home life situation that was not good.
@cherokeepatti I鈥檓 sorry I Know How You Feel 馃槱 except it鈥檚 my foster parents real daughter who bullies me and my foster parents aren鈥檛 the nicest
cherokeepatti61-69, F
@Mindyhernanez Sorry you are having to deal with all of that. Maybe the girl is jealous or something, sounds nasty of them to treat you poorly...I don't know why some people choose to foster children if they don't really like them.
@cherokeepatti It鈥檚 soo unfair 馃槶馃槶馃槶
benJohnson9918-21, M
Bully's are just cowards I have been picked on but I always say to myself that I am better than those ignorant bigots who have nothing going for them so they just pick on so called people who they know would not fight back.
steve71756-60, M
I'm sorry that you suffered and were hurt deeply by this. It is unfair. But always remember that you are better .Do not hold unto the pain...Someday you will be able to ignore it.
Sorry you are going through those kind of things hope things get better for you
Khenpal1M
Don't focus on thing outside, if you react normal ways you feed the demons.
DannyVD26-30, M
hugs,I know how it is,I gaved up one people long time ago
SW-User
You seems like you really hurt 馃様
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