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Women with bold voice unattractive?

To start with, I speak boldly and confidentially to anyone and my voice isn't all too sweet or beautiful and no one found it weird until I met some dudes from India. Not all of them but some of them are pretty much very sexist. They body shamed me (even though most of them weren't healthy themselves), I don't smile [i]beautifully[/i] like other Indian girls (I am half Indian), commented on how I walk because I walk pretty fast and not [i]graciously[/i] and mostly they said I didn't speak in a lady like way.

I was dating a guy at the time and those buffoons heard me talking to him. My bf likes the way I talk except them. They wondered how could he date a woman with such a deep and bold voice.

I met other Indian men before and never I had an unpleasant experience before with them. But I am appalled at some expectations some men keep for their women. 馃う
assemblingaknob26-30, F
Ugh. People forget that their preferences aren't supposed to be imposed on the whole world.

These guys you speak of remind me of fans of one music genre shaming another music genre and calling all music "crap" because they don't [i]personally[/i] like it. 馃檮

Like duuuudde attraction to certain physical and personality traits is soooo subjective that you can't speak for anyone else.
Don't worry their opinion doesn't matter.
HannibalAteMeOut22-25, F
Some people are just too weird... It's like those that say it's unattractive for a lady to use bad language 馃槄 What I find unattractive in guys is them saying what they don't find appealing about us. Nobody will force you to date me, dude. Calm the fuck down and let me speak.
SW-User
Everyone has expectations of what a real/good woman/man is. We dont live to please everyone and the only opinions that should matter are those from individuals that love and care for you and your well being. Fuck everyone else.
Gentlequill51-55, M
I work with an indian fellow and he has the worst opinion of women. He calls his wife stupid, and treats her terribly.
JBirdF
@Gentlequill most Indian men are sexists in my opinion. When my mother divorced my father after long years of abuse, many of her relatives cursed her for [i] disobeying[/i] her husband. I noticed Indian youtubers target Indian actresses and make troll videos of them for raising their voices. I was furious when several of my Indian friends applauded for a celebrity when he made a sexist remark. That's why I stay cautious of Indian men.
Gentlequill51-55, M
@JBird I don't blame you. It's disgusting with their attitudes. Nobody deserves to be disrespected like that. Now, my brothers in-laws are indian and are some of the sweetest people I have ever met. I guess it's a home training thing.
JBirdF
@Gentlequill yeah, it depends on how they are raised. I am glad my Indian cousins aren't sexist brats.
ClassifiedM
There are a lot of rude people out there. In some cultures that is even encouraged.
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SW-User
Just out of curiosity, how many men have you dated till now?
JBirdF
@SW-User five dates and three serious relationship, one almost led to marriage
SW-User
@JBird oke doke.

 
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