I refuse to let this dude waste his time on me

If he’s already interested in you, don’t close the door on him. Give him a chance.

I say the same thing about guys, that they’re out of my league. But if I let that get in the way, I wouldn’t have met some of the men I have.

Go with the flow & enjoy yourself. Be confident & feel worthy of his attention.

Did you ever stop to think that maybe he isn’t happy and think his life is fake? Maybe he’s interested because your honest, down to earth and attractive? Don’t over think it or sell yourself short. You’ve undervalued yourself due to the previous life situation.

How did he get where he is, his social status and all? What stops you from becoming the person like him? Is that kind of life you desire too? Would you like to be like him or are you just afraid that he wishes you to be like him? You are you, if you are the way you want to be, stand proud, if you feel like lacking, do your best to improve what you don't like about yourself.
I know, easier said than done...but he can be the right motivation for you. If he likes you he would help you to regain confidence and feel better about yourself too.

why not let him decide what league he's in? just a thought

Friendship is the best way to start anything :) just saying!

Then just stay friends,it's that simple !

You are overthinking it

I agree.

Don't sell yourself short like that.

Hmm. Never liked the "out of my league" term; unless relationships really are seen as a game, of sorts.

Don’t try and stop it just cause you don’t feel your classy/good enough or whatever. If he likes you, go with your heart

Who says you are not of his caliber? Stand up and own your positive traits! You are a real catch..🤗