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cool2030 · 41-45, M
To be serious for a moment, Melissa: all of us have to choose some course between two negative extremes, being lonely on the one hand and being stuck with the wrong person on the other. In between come some super lucky ones who are together with a really neat person. However this neat person can change with the years, or can become considerably less exciting once you get to know them better. In very short -- THAT'S THE WHOLE GAME.
So we've got to find our way: either relax about the lonely moments, or do our darnedest to improve and maintain as best as we can the relationship(s) that we may have. And some of us do both! :)
So we've got to find our way: either relax about the lonely moments, or do our darnedest to improve and maintain as best as we can the relationship(s) that we may have. And some of us do both! :)