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I Have Never Been In a Relationship

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I really don't know where to begin. At both this post and a relationship.
I can very easily talk to people but I've never really felt something.
Often I've had parents thinking I was interested in their daughter but I'm just really good at being "nice", forming conversations, helping out, etc.
On top of all of that, there are certain things, expectations I suppose, that are really only getting worse as I'm getting older. It's not that there are more and more, it's that what I expected years ago was "common" while as a person gets older, becomes less so.
Not to mention that as I've gotten older, I have less and less social interactions outside randomly meeting people in stores, on the road, etc.
I've never really looked for one actively because I always thought that if it's meant to be it'll happen.
But again, as I'm getting older and definitely not getting better looking ... I feel like it might be getting too late.

Not that I mind that much, since I know that I'll have to give up A LOT and I'm not sure if I'm willing to. But sometimes I do crave for someone to be there when I come home.
Someone to talk to, have dinner with. Someone to cuddle as I fall asleep (just to eventually kick her/him out of bed cuz I can't lay still XD), especially on days like Christmas where being alone is really f*cking sad XD
26-30, T
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Aug 31, 2019
blackcar · 22-25, M
Relationships aren't some complex thing to understand. You either like spending time with someone or not. You tell them about yourself. What you like. What you don't like. What you hate. Just talk about whatever you want to talk about.
PurpleStar · 26-30, T
[@567763,blackcar] Sounds easy ... but where's the start line?

Talking is easy but it doesn't really get you anywhere if you're oblivious as sh*t >.>
SoFine · 41-45, F
Your life job is to "Know they self"
As the only one to give you your inner deep love, is you to you.
In your life ahead, people will come and they will leave, the constant is " you to you "

Yes, we enjoy the company of close friends, to share with, to help in the ups of life, the down times as well.

So till then, build you up from within, know you, your darkness, your funny. Find those interests that inspired you, then you can share with others what lights you up.

Remember you are the constant in your life. If you stay single, then be complete, at peace with this. Long-term relationships, can be a war zone, as each later on will trigger each others life hurts, as often situations get repeated, yet we react with our ego hurts, we react by old habits in current situations.

Enjoy each moment, it's in each moment that life happens into the next moment.

Best advice is, never compare your life with those you interact with, if you do, you will always feel robed. (Should be, why not, if only mine was like that)

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