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I Im Sad

A guy I had a crush on unfriended me on snapchat cause we haven't really talked much ): I don't talk much in real life cause I've been told I'm so annoying in the past
xmedleft · 51-55, M
Sorry to hear that,
I had a similar thing happen last fall, a girl I had a crush on for a couple of months (never had the guts to tell her, but damn I wrote some nice poetry about her) unfriended me IRL and on FB and trashed me to a couple of our mutual friends. They put her in her place saying something to the effect of "I've heard what he wrote, it was never anything bad and it was beautiful -- and if anyone was ever so lucky to have someone say such good stuff about them. She hasn't spoken to me since October and we had been friends !!
In the end I am glad she showed this side, kinda did me a favor -- I wouldn't want to get stuck in a relationship and then being dumped by such an angry person. I've been there/done that.
SW-User
Awwww :( Well, take it as a learning experience! If you talk a lot, that doesn't exactly mean you should stop. Maybe that just meant that you were hanging around the wrong people. You should be able to be yourself and be liked for how you are, naturally. So next time, I encourage you to speak as you would normally speak! If your crush likes you, great! :) If he doesn't, then he wasn't the right guy for you, then. In the end, it's not about trying to get someone to like you, but rather to be yourself and let those who like you like you... if that made any sense lol.
joahola98wj · 31-35, F
@Beige22 It's a matter of opinion. It doesn't mean it's true. Although someone thinks you're annoying, be yourself. Why do their opinions matter? What must matter is how you think of yourself. If you don’t think you’re annoying, then you aren’t annoying. You’ll feel sad if you do things to please other people or to gain their approval. You’ll only be happy if you live your life on your own terms and personalized standards.
SW-User
Well not so big deal. You were not going to date him on snap chat , will you?
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Linda26 · 31-35, F
me too. dont talk much in real life.. comfortable chatting here
TheEight · 36-40, M
I actually never understood the fact of taking people off your friends list. Its almost like they think its burning a hole in their screen or something. Granted I suppose that if you end up with many many contacts you may want to clean, but otherwise why not just leave people on your list?
I highly doubt you are annoying though.
Beige22 · 26-30, F
Ikr I hardly smile anymore unless if someone says something really funny
jpiper5 · M
People only say that about you because they don't appreciate you. I'm sorry
ORouls · 36-40, M
I don't believe that u r annoying...Look at your smile...
The most beautiful thing u have
Can I add you on snapchat?
ron122 · 41-45, M
You seem pretty sweet to me
passion · 56-60, M
You could never be annoying!
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Beige22 · 26-30, F
It's beige22
Beige22 · 26-30, F

 
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