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Northwest · M
Have you shared this with him?
Girlygirl099 · 26-30, F
@Northwest I have, and he either says sorry (but then does it again) or gets really defensive
Northwest · M
@Girlygirl099 I know it's tough with Covid, but you need to find a therapist/life coach, who can help you devise a plan. Someone who can spend a few hours, one on one, to get to really know your situation. Do not involve your husband at this point, and you should be able to do this online.
Your husband is showing signs of disturbing behavior, and you need to determine if it's situational or systemic. If it's the latter, then you have a real problem, as people do not change at that level. If it's the former, then the two of you can work through it.
Your husband is showing signs of disturbing behavior, and you need to determine if it's situational or systemic. If it's the latter, then you have a real problem, as people do not change at that level. If it's the former, then the two of you can work through it.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
I was married for over 20 years, I can assure you that your feelings matter to your husband. It is probably so assumed by him that he thinks its obvious to you. He thinks that checkbox has already been checked, after all you are married, never realizing that it requires maintenance.