How would you feel if a close friend of your partner trash talks about your appearance to them and your partner considers what they said?

@Magenta what if they asked you change according to what their friend said? But then apologize?

@SW-User Ridiculous. It sounds very immature to me. But then I am not young. ;-)
Maybe they don't care for how you dress but are embarrassed to say? You need to ask them, only they have the answer for what they think.

@Magenta yes very immature indeed. She later apologized saying that she knew her friend was gonna say such stuff about jealousy and the way she said it she ended up believing her for a moment and hence her wish came along to change me. She also mentioned about my abs and other things to my friend and she replied saying 'make a pickle out of his abs'. I am just shocked by all this. None of my friends would ever dare say anything about my girlfriend and they respect her a lot.

@nonsensiclesnail she talked to her friend. Her friend said that my lips look too pink (which I know) and that I apply lipstick 😂. Then my girlfriend asked me to change the colour of my lips and make them look a bit darker. About few months ago, my girlfriend complimented a lot on my lips and how pink they look and how much she loves them. But when her friend said this to her, it seemed like she forgot what she liked.

@SW-User 🤔 start wearing blue lipstick. But just for her friend.

@Stopmakingsense these are girls in this case.

@SW-User wow. So it's really the same everywhere and even women behave like life's a Bud Light poster?

@Stopmakingsense seems so. Look, this is not a gender hating question. It is a genuine problem I am facing.

@Ingwe what do you mean? 'Let yourself go'?

@SW-User 🤐