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How much flirt of the opposite party is allowed in a relationship?

Do you get accustomed to the flirt after watching your other party that okay, this is the level. "If she/he can go movie, I can go movie too" and likewise.

Or rather say, "why flirt in a relationship, why get married or get a boyfriend / girlfriend if you wanna flirt with other people"

People, when say flirting is fun, I may take up the level of flirting significantly with their significant others so avoid being impractical like "Hey, I am very cool woman/man, I can let you watch a movie but no kissing, and even if kissing then no smooching, okay?" because I know you are not that cool

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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

I'm very cool with flirting if it doesn't go further than that.

Jackand · 41-45, M

@DearAmbellina2113 further than what? Further than Smooching, kissing or touching while watching movie? Just asking

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@Jackand admiring with your eyes and maybe a flirty comment here and there is fine with me. But no touching and definitely no kissing.

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@DearAmbellina2113 I think you'd have to be basically dead inside to have complete emotional loyalty to your partner to be honest at least as a guy...

out of respect for muh honey if monogamous I tend to just keep things to myself even thoguh it's something I don't enjoy doing.

but yeah there really is no perfect relationship that would have innoculated against my wanderlust in that regard, I could be perfectly happy and I'd still develop these inconvenient affections for other women...

I wouldn't go through anything short of full disclousre and loyalty again considering what the mere sin of omission cost me- I won't go through anything deceptive ever again...

I CAN do monogamy, what I CANNOT Do is make the feelings disappear.

Jackand · 41-45, M

@DearAmbellina2113 flirty comment for how long? I mean let's suppose

the guy knows a woman for one year and flirts with her and the second guy flirts with different women and for just maybe a month or so.

Who is better?

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@Jackand neither would bother me.