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I Have A Boyfriend

My boyfriend is mad at me. :( He is posting all over Facebook how sad he is. I feel really bad, but I don't know what I did. I texted him, but he's not talking to me. I wish he would just break up with me.
BobbieT · M
Sounds like he’s trying to blame you for something he did. He might have someone else & doesn’t know how to end it. When we don’t answer it’s usually because we can’t come up with a good lie😊. Sorry, hope he call you
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
If he's not adult enough to articulate his feelings like he should, probably not the person you want to spend a lot of time with..
4meAndyou · F
Why don't you copy all his posts, and include them in your message to him when you tell him you don't need a relationship with a guy who can only use his words to suck sympathy from the public, but can't use them to speak to you.
SW-User
Alternatively you could initiate the breakup if you think that’s what needs to happen.
SW-User
@AliceinWonderland That’s not your problem, and it’s on him to get help when he needs it, not on you to hand hold and Sherpa him along. If you’re that afraid of what he’ll do...law enforcement.

Source: I’m bipolar and don’t expect the kid gloves treatment from a partner.
TravisTx · M
@AliceinWonderland you think he’s using the fact that he’s a little unstable as a control thing to keep you hanging on?
@TravisTx no. he can't help it. he has been to the hospital several times. he never said anything about it, i just am anticipating what might happen if i break up with him.
SW-User
communication is the key to a healthy relationship , you could have just talked about it and see where would things go but he is being so childish
Caramelwonder · 36-40, M
No one should ever post their relationship problems on Facebook no one wins it only makes everything worse if you can’t work through your problems end it
mrwhiterabbit · 46-50, M
Does he think you cheated? Or were flirting with someone. Maybe he misinterpreted something
@mrwhiterabbit i told him i don't want to marry him
Classified · M
So he's telling everyone except you? That's not good 😥
@Classified he's just saying "i'm sad" but he's not saying why.
Classified · M
@AliceinWonderland Best to try not to feel bad. He's at fault now for gossiping about it, but not telling you what's going on.
SW-User
Those drama queens who post shit all over facebook are better off without
TravisTx · M
@SW-User I was thinking he was being a bit of a drama queen myself! Not good to post those things on FB.
rhouse · 56-60, M
Send him one last text similar to this "I'm done with you. Bye."

Then ghost him forever and get a guy you deserve.
hlpflwthat · M
I would wish the same I think. Especially when people take the drama out in public
SW-User
That’s kinda passive aggressive of him
hlpflwthat · M
@SW-User Kinda? You're too generous lol.

Where I come from we call him a 'pity whore.'
acpguy · C
Get rid of the weird bastard.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
you should break up with him
He's acting like a fucking 4-year-old. Are you not interested in adult males?
@AliceinWonderland What's funny? His behavior is troubling. You need to give your relationship with him a review.

You said you wish he would break up with you. Why can't you break up with him? Both of you seem passive-aggressive.

 
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