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I Feel Ugly

I feel fat and ugly since I've gained 65lbs I now have thick arms, a big belly and a roll under my chin. Men stare at my belly, women ask me if I'm pregnant, and my husband insists that I jog 15 km a day, because he didn't sign up for marrying a fat girl, and that he just wants his hot skinny wife back....Truth be told I gained all of this weight since I started taking my life saving medication, I've tried coming off the meds and I developed hypotension and a heart arrhythmia, even if I miss a dose my heart goes all out of whack. So here I am getting fat but still alive, my husband doesn't find me attractive anymore and let's me know that on a daily basis. And I feel like shit......and unattractive. But I know that I have inner beauty.though the nice thing is guys don't hit on me anymore.
saintsong
41-45, F
14 replies 101 views Aug 5, 2016
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Ikemp13 · 22-25, F
Dont listen to them , I'm sure your beautiful and have a beautiful soul
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saintsong · 41-45, F
This picture was taken just before I went on the meds, my niece has the same problems with her heart that I do, when she went on the same meds that I am on she rapidly gained weight too and had a double chin and a big belly and thick arms so she stopped taking her meds and got skinny again but now has an enlarged ventricle.
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Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
Dont let anyone feel you bad, you have just gained some weight not done any crime, keep your track in exercise and food for losing weight not for anyone but just for yourself to be healthy, you are in your thirties so you should live many years ahead so live happy and healthy, Good luck :D
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saintsong · 41-45, F
Yes my husband has started bullying me ever since I gained the weight, and it's getting bad for the past three days I have brought this to his attention.
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BlackWhiteAndRed · F
Your husband is treating you like this because you are taking life saving medication?
This sounds emotionally abusive. Is there any way you could counselling for these issues? Maybe? Because you can't allow yourself to be bullied like this.
If your husband doesn't support you, someone else will. Best wishes.
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Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
Physical beauty is not forever but health really matter so first of all improve your health then you can deal with all other problems.
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Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
Tell him that, it could have happened to him and you wouldn't be treating him badly so tell him to treat you nicely.
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Mk8155 · M
Your body is yours and you should feel proud if who you are some of us men like a little meat on the bones
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Soossie
Sweetie...think..if that's not what you want, then start a plan....
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silkandlace · 46-50, M
Feel lovely, I'm sure you are; no woman should be treated like that!
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Waxfoot · 56-60, M
hang in there,not much you can do about medication
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Waxfoot · 56-60, M
you look gorgeous anyway
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Nomad84 · 70-79, M
You look stunning.
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