I was just browsing Tumblr and came across this picture. It made me think of when I was in my early teens and out shopping with my mom when I saw a woman a little like this one. It is one of my clearest early memories of finding a woman attractive on a more than aesthetic level. I was staring and trying to decide if I wanted to [i]be[/i] her or be [i]with [/i]her.
And then I got to thinking of the woman in this exact photo, like who she is and the fact she exists somewhere in the world and I wonder what she is doing. lol, not sure of the point of this post just feeling thoughtful I suppose.
@ozgirl512 Better late than never 😅 I am sure I hearted it at the time but a reply has bought the post back to my notifications. Pleased this remained a generally respectful and positive post!
@Keepitsimple Yes, that's what I love about it. She's just unapologetically pretty and confident. She's not attractive because of or despite of her body but because of how she portrays herself.
My exwife grappled with this. I think that her self-image was so messed up that her brain registered "attraction" instead of "competition" when she saw an attractive woman.
