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I Wish People Would Realize How Their Actions Hurt Others

Narcissists And Sociopaths... I wrote this to a new friend last night and thought it was worth sharing.

Narcissists and sociopaths abound on ep. It is a great hiding place for them. what bothers me is that those who are very direct and honest are often their target...they bully and manipulate and write nasty headlines, blogs  and stories. they talk in riddles and rhymes thinking that no one knows what they are to.  Then they run and hide behind someone when they are outed...that pisses me off.  COWARD.

People on ep take people at face value. Why? For several reasons. We want to believe the best in people. We are not here for the drama. BUT I found there is a much bigger picture than we always know. it is up for us to decide whether we want to expose ourselves to such.

I don't associate with evil. I tended to believe that everyone had a good side until I was bitten on here.. now I am very adept at picking out the good apples.

Don't get me wrong, i have been fooled on more than one occasion but evil people have patterns if you choose to look.

For me, once bitten, twice shy. What really makes me madder  even more is when people make snap judgements about me WITHOUT knowing the whole story. . When that happens , i wish them well and move on.

I am a straight shooter and honest to the max. You may not agree with me, may not like my outlook or advice, but it comes from the heart. AND I am loyal to the end. Ask my friends.

I find the internet to be amazing because you see the side that a person hides...that is invaluable.
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sciguy18
Unfortunately, I think a lot of people have experienced this type of behavior. We can try to be selective in our dealings and think the best of people or we can completely shut ourselves off from everyone so that we won't get hurt. That makes for a pretty lonely existence though - both here and in "real life".

"We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy." ~ Walter Anderson
akindheart · 61-69, F
the friend i sent this too said the same thing. and i feell the same way. I live on.