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I Lack a Sense of Family With My Family

Black Sheep is still a sheep.

I'm so sick and tired of how my parents treated me differently than my other siblings that I once introduced myself at a family wedding that goes,

'hello, I'm the black sheep of the family. Nice to meet you.' :)
xRedx · M
I kinda know how it feels. For the longest time, I was the middle child.
mistfox · 36-40, F
@xRedx thanks for sharing, Red. It made me feel lighter. :)
xRedx · M
@mistfox Sure, you're welcome Fox. You're definitely not alone. 🙂
mistfox · 36-40, F
@xRedx :) great to know that.
Ecarlate · F
fun fact: most people think their parents favor their siblings more than them.
xRedx · M
@mistfox exactly. It's more than obvious in some cases
Ecarlate · F
@mistfox yes, sometimes, but from personal experience, most of the time aren't true. they just love their children differently because they're different people. I suggest both groups, think from each other's perspectives.
IDK you and your family well enough to know what case it is, maybe it's like the usual, or maybe they do favor your siblings more, IDK.
I'm just talking from personal experiences.
mistfox · 36-40, F
@Ecarlate I understand. :) we all walk different shoes in life.
kyky16 · 22-25, F
I understand this on so many levels
mistfox · 36-40, F
@kyky16 lol same! Maybe that's why we're the Black Sheep.

My family once went for a trip to Korea. There were 5 of us in the family. We went with a tour group.

One time we stopped for lunch and I walked to the restaurant fast because I want to make sure we got the table so we wont have to split up and sit with strangers. I got the table but all of them were for 4 people. Guess who my family pushed away and had to sit with other people's family? Yeap. Me. So awkward sitting there sharing meal with a family that's not my own while my own family is a couple of tables away.

This happened for the entire trip.
kyky16 · 22-25, F
@mistfox that is awful. Im sorry. My mom can relate to that. When ever my whole family gets together and go to eat my mom gets pushed to the kiddie table even when the adult table has enough seats for her
mistfox · 36-40, F
@kyky16 I'm sorry to hear about your mom...its honestly, an awful feeling. My heart breaks for her... 😞

 
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