I Hate Liars and Deceiving People Have you ever been scammed online? I have to laugh because I...

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Well, those who have hurt me deeply, and there are many, I wish no harm. It does not please me to think karma is real and they too will suffer. I don't want that.

Looking back at those who were cruel to me, they have done very well for themselves. Those without a conscience do not suffer, but actually are happy, so I don't believe in karma.

akindheart · 61-69, F

yes it is island. you have to wonder why. I wrote a story and deleted it only to find out that i had been deceived in that too. they have taken their game elsewhere so i am a little more free to write now.

SW-User

It's a disgusting, distressing, depressing, and generally upsetting feeling when that happens.
I'm very sorry that happened to you.

MLGecko · 46-50, M

Don't know why we need to deceive in this world. No, you might not approve of how I live my life but at least if up front, you can make that call from the beginning and the friendship can form from there.

Carissimi · F

You misunderstand me, heart. I am not waiting for karma. I don't want others to suffer, that would make me suffer too. I wish no harm to anyone. My only wish for those who have hurt me is for their transformation into a kind person. It's not going to happen, but that's my only wish for them.

Carissimi · F

Yes, I have, but where I disagree is you get back what you put out to the universe.

Even yesterday, when I put much thought into birthday gifts and paying for an expensive birthday meal for a loved one, I didn't even get a thank you. It crushed me to be treated with such indifference. This is the story of my life. I seem to be surrounded by cold hearts.

I withdraw from people more and more because over 60-years of living, it seems destiny only wants to surround me with the cold hearted and indifferent. I stiffen my spine and become even more of an island and stoic. My warm heart must be covered for its own protection.

jim44444 · 70-79, M

I do not believe I have been scammed but maybe I am just unaware. I just cannot see what the value is to lying online, building a persona that does not exist. All that invested time and thought for what purpose? The liars are defective souls, I pity them.

SW-User

😞

akindheart · 61-69, F

i understood you. i understand your point of view. i was just trying to explain mine. I do believe in karma...and that helps me move forward.

Carissimi · F

That's a very alien concept to me...payback. However, each to his/her own. Whatever works to keep us going.

akindheart · 61-69, F

Carissimi, it has happened to me too. it is hurtful. but i do believe in karma.

agreatday · 61-69, M

@kindheart - i'm just too naïve and trusting I think.
maybe you're the same way.
i'm sorry that happened to ya.

akindheart · 61-69, F

Island, i wrote a story on ep...just sent you a private message!

SW-User

@akindheart, I am really disgusted that 'person' preyed on someone as nice and good as you.

akindheart · 61-69, F

me too agreatday...me too

agreatday · 61-69, M

never scammed. but I've been catfished a few times.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

I will never understand what they get out of it...to me it seems like way too much work to remember all the lies...

agreatday · 61-69, M

not scammed but catfished a few times.

akindheart · 61-69, F

i can see why you believe that. I waited for it too and I didn't see it. but i believe it will happen. hugs to you.

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

everyone lies...

just the foundation is the ethic.

SW-User

@akindheart - THAT person was on EP!!!

akindheart · 61-69, F

@agreatday...i will have to write about that one. A man I met claimed to be a NBA ballplayer...he was a fraud and ended up on CNN and ESPN..

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Yes i have...more than I would like to admit but it certainly opened my eyes.

missit15 · 56-60, M

Karma,,, I think she can be a real b%tch later in life...

akindheart · 61-69, F

@ JLP normal people feel that way...but not liars. it is all about saving their butt. I would love to post what happened but even though i got hurt, i will take the high road.