There has only ever been one girl that I have had a true deep and powerful connection with, and to many she was not seen as attractive. But to me she was so attractive, I could not quite put a finger on. Now I am not saying that i was just attracted to her personality although she had the best personality of them all, funny, kind, caring, really a lot of fun. There was something about the way she looked that I was attracted too as well, many of my friends were not physically attracted to her but I was? I think it may have been because I grew up in a small town and we didn't have many options to choose from but this is real. I was physically attracted to someone that was not attractive to other people. When I have lived in more rural area’s your options are less, which makes you not as picky. When you live in a huge city however, and have options left right and center then that’s when i feel it can be a lot easier to become more picky. This girl I was with though had a life and she dressed really well, she strived to be fit wasn’t the fittest looking girl but if i know the girl is into fitness and won't just let herself go then I will invest my time in her because I know she can get hotter then she is. She cared about me and showed it without being needy which really pulled me in. In essence I can say that yes I have many options in the girls department but the girl I have connected with in a way i have yet to experience up to this point was a girl that society wouldn’t consider attractive based on physical appearance. She was however very beautiful in my eyes. I still really don't know exactly why?