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Mamapolo2016 · F
I think this might be worth your time to read. It's true some men HAVE to be with a 'hot catch' on their arm because that feeds their self-esteem. It's also true that there are lots of men who care more about other things. The following is by a man who did NOT fall for a woman their friends drooled over. If you knock off the excuses about why you're not good enough and focus on being the best you that you can be, there is someone out there for you. Now, if you reject Mr. Average because you're waiting for Mr. Breathtaking. well, that's shallow too. MOST PEOPLE ARE AVERAGE. That's why it's called average.
One more case in point and then the statement from the guy. Whoopi Goldberg has a lot of great qualities, but I never heard anybody call her physically gorgeous. She and Ted Danson, Mr. Breathtaking from Cheers, had a long relationship. It happens more often than you think.
One more case in point and then the statement from the guy. Whoopi Goldberg has a lot of great qualities, but I never heard anybody call her physically gorgeous. She and Ted Danson, Mr. Breathtaking from Cheers, had a long relationship. It happens more often than you think.
There has only ever been one girl that I have had a true deep and powerful connection with, and to many she was not seen as attractive. But to me she was so attractive, I could not quite put a finger on. Now I am not saying that i was just attracted to her personality although she had the best personality of them all, funny, kind, caring, really a lot of fun. There was something about the way she looked that I was attracted too as well, many of my friends were not physically attracted to her but I was? I think it may have been because I grew up in a small town and we didn't have many options to choose from but this is real. I was physically attracted to someone that was not attractive to other people. When I have lived in more rural area’s your options are less, which makes you not as picky. When you live in a huge city however, and have options left right and center then that’s when i feel it can be a lot easier to become more picky. This girl I was with though had a life and she dressed really well, she strived to be fit wasn’t the fittest looking girl but if i know the girl is into fitness and won't just let herself go then I will invest my time in her because I know she can get hotter then she is. She cared about me and showed it without being needy which really pulled me in. In essence I can say that yes I have many options in the girls department but the girl I have connected with in a way i have yet to experience up to this point was a girl that society wouldn’t consider attractive based on physical appearance. She was however very beautiful in my eyes. I still really don't know exactly why?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 I want to have someone at least average but I'm stuck with mr.ugly all the time sending me messages on dating sites
Mamapolo2016 · F
@IAmNothing Let me tell you something about people that you probably won't heed, but it's worth a shot.
Ugly does not matter a tinker's damn a short while into the relationship. Neither does handsome. The gorgeous guy your friends go ga-ga over can make you so miserable you'll wish you'd died before you met him. Ugly guys can be rotten too, but they can be very beautiful, in the way they love and care for you. The wrapping doesn't matter if the gift is a rotten tomato.
There. I said my say. Give somebody a chance and see what happens, or live lonely and sad. Your choice.
Ugly does not matter a tinker's damn a short while into the relationship. Neither does handsome. The gorgeous guy your friends go ga-ga over can make you so miserable you'll wish you'd died before you met him. Ugly guys can be rotten too, but they can be very beautiful, in the way they love and care for you. The wrapping doesn't matter if the gift is a rotten tomato.
There. I said my say. Give somebody a chance and see what happens, or live lonely and sad. Your choice.