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I Lost Friends

Another friendship ended. A chapter could be filled with how shitty this feels, but honestly empty seems the most appropriate description. When did friendships feel like grabbing just the right puzzle piece to fit the gap? Whatever happen to just having a buddy without worrying if they aren’t exactly perfect? It feels as though I’m never good enough. Honestly anymore creating new friends sound just about exciting as a flu shot.

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Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Sorry you have to go through it. It does suck.

Friendships are more like alliances between countries. It's all about mutual benefit. Each need to be beneficial to the other in order for an alliance to be worthwhile. It gets kinda convoluted when you integrate personal identity [someone doesn't wanna view themselves as a shallow person, so they stick around even though they don't get anything from it], but that's the general truth.

So what did you or the other person do wrong? If you figure it out, you can learn from it and try not to repeat the same mistake. There's a lot of things a person can do to improve themselves and get better at socializing.

At the same time, sometimes it's just beyond our control and the people just weren't compatible.

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WolfMaiden · 26-30, F

calmly talking**

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

@WolfMaiden Damn, that's fucked up. Maybe something did happen to her, and she just wanted to get away from everything. I know I've done that before. Who knows. Maybe in a year or two, you could just try one more time and see if she wants to be friends again?

WolfMaiden · 26-30, F

@Tatsumi I've thought about it honestly. Just giving her a few years and try to be friends again. Only time will tell.

hidingrighthere

You got this, expand the possibility of making friends with men(though be careful for the creepers). Wht are you in to, and then head to where you can find similar minded people

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WolfMaiden · 26-30, F

Thank you for the tips. If you need to talk to I'll be here. (Might be bit late responding though no promises.)

hidingrighthere

@WolfMaiden Hey hey hey, I said if you ever need to talk, I'll be here :P I'll probably bother you every now and then asking how you're doing

WolfMaiden · 26-30, F

@hidingrighthere Okay 😆

xRedx · M

I've been there. Countless hours spent, and then we're strangers all over again. It's disappointing but dwelling on it will only hurt. Moving foward is the logical thing to do.

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xRedx · M

@WolfMaiden yes, thankfully I'm a logical person. And yes, music definetly helps. I drown myself in music at times

WolfMaiden · 26-30, F

@xRedx It's what I've been doing, because I know myself I'll sit there thinking of everything that happened till it's 3am.

xRedx · M

@WolfMaiden I see, well that's good. Dwelling will only cause pain. I actually would listen to a lot of songs without lyrics. Like from games and stuff

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