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I Am In a Bad Marriage

I guess I'm in a bad marriage. He's already verbally abusive, I see no end to it. There's gotta be greener pastures on the other side.
SW-User
Old post, hoping you've reached greener pastures.
@SW-User we dont live together...forgetting about him is working i guess
Verbal abuse indicates lack of respect (he doesn't respect you.) It will be a LOT of work to turn this around, if it can be turned around.

You might be ahead to cut your losses and not fall into the trap of thinking you can change him. He's the only one who can change himself...and he has to want to.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Don’t waste your time. Warn him once. If he ignores you, walk away. It can escalate to physical easily.
Shipwrecked · 46-50, M
That sounds potentially dangerous and it must be VERY frustrating...🥺
@Shipwrecked yes...
Skilllickous · 51-55, M
What a bum of a husband
Iam sorry for ur pain
Stay strong! I hope things get better.
SW-User
Just keep trying, your life will be better too
TexChik · F
Oh that’s not good . I’m so sorry .
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Em, if he ever hurts you, get out.
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Danerol · 31-35, M
Im sorry that your even been treated like that. There is alot people that would happily support you here, but at the end of the day its your choice how it ends up in the future. I hope your going to be ok
wintersecret · 41-45, M
U need rethink.

Sorry to hear the way he treats you.

A relationship without Respect is a Boat with Hole sailing in the sea

HUGS
Highskirt · 56-60, M
Get out while you still have some self respect .there will be a great guy out there that will treat you as you deserve
antonioio · 70-79, M
Theirs no marriage perfect and if theirs something wrong in your marriage, you do something about it
rfhh1959 · 61-69, M
Very long term marriage and I totally get what you are saying. I cannot afford teh exit costs at this point.
Venture out into those greener pastures.
Life is too short to deal with abuse of ANY kind. Look for fun. 🤗
Millard1 · 61-69, M
You’re beautiful, piss him off and get a guy who respects you
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Abuse is abuse. Physical or verbal. It will not get better.
Withintent · M
Don't be miserable for anyone, go find your pasture.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Wait, you are married and sort of a virgin?
SW-User
get out...

why be unhappy, that must be awful?
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Is this still the case, 6 months on?

 
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