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CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
I was thinking about this lately, in the aspect of the crushes I have had IRL and on SW the last few years. I get attached easily and if it comes to an end, no matter how it comes to an end, I grieve. And that is something that DH can rarely help me with.
diablesse · 56-60, F
@CoffeeFirst You grieve because it was meaningful to you. I have found what helps is to feel thankful for having had the opportunity to share a few moments with someone so special.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@diablesse You are right. I don't know if I get past the grief and sometimes confusion to get to grateful though.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@CoffeeFirst It can take a while to get there. Time is a wonderful healer. If you eventually look back, it can be with a grateful heart or with a heart that’s learned a lesson.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@ChampagneOnIce So many lessons learned! 🙄😊
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@CoffeeFirst Haha. I understand. 😄🤗
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@ChampagneOnIce Although there are some sitiations I want to repeat...just to make sure! Lol🥴
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@CoffeeFirst I can understand that too. For me, though, once the lesson is learned I won’t go there again. However, if it’s a pleasurable experience, I do like a repeat performance or two or... ;)
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@ChampagneOnIce You read me right, sistah!