I Am Scared of Falling In Love

There is such a thing like waves ..or tides .. in a relationship .. there is a high tide and a low tide.. if we try hard to stop high tide we will be foolish and drown .. if we try to stop low tide we will be lonely .. gist is we should hold the relationship like sand in hand .. let it be free .. not squeeze it so it escapes completely..
There will be times you want to be lonely and times when you dont .. these arw tides .. times when you feel close and times when you dont feel close to your spouse.. these are delicate times .. extreme opposing actions to these natural variations will create extreme strains in the relationship..so we need to handle them gently and give and take freedom generously... like sand on an open palm we will always retain a good chunk with ourselves in the end ..
Just my 2 cents of understanding on relationships..

I think a lot of us feel this way.
Especially if you have the idea that maybe you're supposed to be on your own.
Been a long time for me. But there's something almost peaceful about being on my own. That make any sense ?

would love to get to know you better

I feel the same way sometimes !