As a world-recognized expert on creating stress, I feel especially qualified to comment on this story. :/
I like @lordwaralied's response, at least after the part about using her breasts to suffocate...WUT? :) The part I like is that most relationships have iffy foundations. I think it is really true, and most of what goes into relationships is just sex, energy, personality, vibe, etc. Very few people actually learn to communicate or even have a clue just how difficult real communication is. The ones who should be smart enough to understand it just get stressed out trying to achieve it and quickly give up.
I have my own weird theories about what makes people compatible for longer term relationships, but I don't want to stress you out. :)
@sunchild777 where were the stresses in your last relationship?