I Love Helping Others But I Need Help Back Sometimes Too

I'm a mn ER nurse. I've seen so much human hurt and peril it hurts to think about.
Tonight was so much worse than I've seen ever.
Why do people stay with overly abusive counterparts? I can somewhat see an excuse for just them, but when tiny children are involved...
please, please help the ones that can't help themselves. I wanted to steal 2 children tonight just to try to prove to them some people want to just care and love them.🙁