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Is it wrong to move away from a daughter(11) who don't want me in her life?

I am lost for words and I am still utterly shocked that my daughter is capable of almost pushing me downstairs. After I confronted her about her phone, that everytime I ring, it wont connect to her number. This has been happening for almost 2 weeks now, and she refused to show me the settings of her phone. I tried confiscating her phone due to her verbal abuse towards me and she refused to do so, and she threatened me of pushing me downstairs. Her father was there, just making approval everytime my daughter gives me verbal abuse and even threatened me of inflicting pain towards me. I just don't understand that a father would tolerate such disrespect towards her own mother.

I want to move away from this house hold. Right now, I just want to end everything. I am sad that my daughter who used to be sweet and loving, is turning into an agressive child. My heart is shattered into pieces. 馃挃馃挃馃挃
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nowic261-69, M
Sounds to me like you need to be speak to your husband. Get his support to work jointly to stop your daughter becoming an undisciplined brat. If that doesn't happen your daughter will grow up damaged.
tryingtobeOK36-40, F
I tried, but I have just been shutdown and treated like a piece of decoration. Apparently I don't have a right to say something.@nowic2
nowic261-69, M
@tryingtobeOK I'm really sorry to hear that. It seems to me that you are better off out of there. Sadly you are in a no win situation. Is there anyone else who could explain to your daughter? If not, I would leave but write your daughter a letter explaining why you left. Leave it with someone who will give it to her in a year or two. It may help give her some perspective. It may not. Regardless, be aware you will be seen as the bad one in all this. Sorry! All the best
tryingtobeOK36-40, F
I know I will be the bad one.
Her dad will just bad mouth me.

And Yes, I will leave a letter for her to read.
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nowic261-69, M
@tryingtobeOK it's a nasty place for you. All the best! 馃