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Is it wrong to move away from a daughter(11) who don't want me in her life?

I am lost for words and I am still utterly shocked that my daughter is capable of almost pushing me downstairs. After I confronted her about her phone, that everytime I ring, it wont connect to her number. This has been happening for almost 2 weeks now, and she refused to show me the settings of her phone. I tried confiscating her phone due to her verbal abuse towards me and she refused to do so, and she threatened me of pushing me downstairs. Her father was there, just making approval everytime my daughter gives me verbal abuse and even threatened me of inflicting pain towards me. I just don't understand that a father would tolerate such disrespect towards her own mother.

I want to move away from this house hold. Right now, I just want to end everything. I am sad that my daughter who used to be sweet and loving, is turning into an agressive child. My heart is shattered into pieces. 💔💔💔
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InHeaven · F
Did you talk to the father?
tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F
I try talking to my husband everyday about the behaviour of my daughter. @InHeaven
InHeaven · F
Then I would leave to not escalate the situation@tryingtobeOK He will not help you, you are on your own with this. I would move somewhere give her address, phone, all contacts, tell her you love her, invite her but tell her that I left because of the problems with the dad, not her. Leave her out of the reason why you are leaving. We don’t want her having to blame herself which will cause more problems in the long run. Leave on “good terms” with her. Dad will probably tell her “oh your mother left you cause you were bad”. Leave on good terms with her, give all contacts and be as sweet as possible with her...when away. When she starts missing you, and you are not angry but super sweet, she will come. She will eventually get tired of the dad cause now that he will be there to deal with her bs 24/7 alone he will not be that tolerant and she will sense his negativity and look for you